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Dear Finkle and Dinkle, I hate all my friends, what should I do?

Dear Frustrated Friend, 

That’s a tough situation. We would say that branching out from who you are currently friends with would probably be your best bet. While abruptly cutting people off may seem like the most appealing option at times, giving situations time and widening your social circle is a better option. Plus, the most irrational decisions are made in the colder months, so giving situations like this time is crucial. If they are truly good friends, a conversation voicing your concerns might result in a deeper level of understanding. If that does not work… well, high school is short in the scheme of things and sometimes not very sweet, so maybe instead of moping about bad friends, put some energy into becoming an academic weapon and hope for better friends in college! 

 

Wishing you luck, 

Finkle and Dinkle 

Dear Finkle and Dinkle, I am in need of love! How do I find it? Any tips?

Dear Desperate Dweller, 

If you have come to this page looking for love, you are in the wrong place! While we may not be the best at providing tips for finding love, we have some great tips on how not to find it!

  • Snapchat quick-add. Snapchat quick add—the modern-day teenage dating app—is a terrible place to find love. There is nothing like being added and asked WDYLL (what do you look like). If you think you will find love there, you are delusional. 
  • Someone from Hastings High School. If you think you are finding love from someone in this wee school, alas, you are dead wrong. Dating someone that you have seen pick their nose in elementary school is not an easy thing to do. Maybe stick to someone you haven’t known forever. It will go better. 
  • Someone from another school. If you thought, “Aw shucks, I guess I’ll just have to find someone from another school,” well we have news for you. That is a TERRIBLE idea. Not only will you have to bear the gas expenses and train tickets to get to this person but it also might end in hiding in their bathtub…not speaking from personal experience or anything.  
  • Lastly, DO NOT look for it on a service program in a remote country or an out-of-control summer camp that you work at. We can say from experience that only ends in disaster!

 

We hope you take these tips to heart, 

Finkle and Dinkle

Dear Finkle and Dinkle, What are your predictions for Winter 2024?

Dear Trendy Truth Seeker, 

 

Winter 2024 is going to bring lots of trends; some of Dinkle and Finkle’s manifestations for this winter are: 

  • Snow—the reversal of climate change.
  • School midterms getting lost in a fire—this one is a must!
  • Good winter drinks from Climbing Wolf, the best study place that we are done gatekeeping.

Some of the trends that we can say will be here for certain this 2024 winter are:

  • Super dry weather (start stocking up on chapstick)
  • Too many Bryant Park Winter Village Instagram stories (We get it! You paid 20 dollars for a sandwich)
  • College dream-shattering midterms (self-explanatory) 
Dear Finkle and Dinkle, All my friends have jobs but I don’t! How can I get a job?

Dear LinkedIn Lurker, 

 

That’s a great question! After surveying the Hastings student population, we determined that the fastest and easiest way to get a job (at least within Hastings) is…Nepotism! But in all seriousness, there are job openings constantly all around Hastings! You can find many posts on the 10706 Facebook group! Besides this, there are summer jobs at camps all around Westchester.

Dear Finkle and Dinkle, I’m struggling to balance schoolwork, extracurricular activities, and time for myself. How can I manage my schedule better and avoid burnout?

Dear Burnt-Out Writer, 

 

That’s a tough one! Balancing all you have to do can be tricky, especially with midterms rapidly approaching. However, we have some solutions! We personally like scheduling out our time, whether that be on paper or with an online service like Google Calendar or Notion; scheduling out your time can help you sort out what you need to do and when, while also leaving you with free time. In addition to this, using the Eisenhower Matrix method helps you divide up your work into four categories based on their urgency and importance. Another great studying method that can prevent burnout is the “Pomodoro Technique.” In this studying technique, you will study for twenty-five minutes and then take a five-minute break, continuing the cycle until you have spent sufficient time with your topic of choice. This is a good way of staying focused and productive while also preventing burnout from too much time spent on one topic. 

On top of this, cutting the habit of procrastination and doomscrolling can help you reclaim some more free time. While cutting out procrastination is easier said than done, calendars and the Eisenhower Matrix which we mentioned can help you create a plan to complete work that would have been procrastinated without a set plan. Staying on top of your work helps prevent burnout by eliminating the need to pull all-nighters when you put aside an assignment for too long. Recognizing when you are burned out is crucial in being able to ascend from this state and pull yourself out of academic burnout. Take a day for yourself: hang out with your friends and family, get some rest, and do calming hobbies such as reading or crocheting. Scheduling oneself can be tough but learning to say no to certain activities and not overfill your schedule can be the first step to take in avoiding burnout.  

 

Yours Truly,

Finkle and Dinkle

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